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Sunday, June 15, 2014

A Portrait a week: 24/52 and a week in Munich

Hot hot hot!

We had a really fantastic week in Germany this past week and was sad to have it come to an end. We were spoilt by my mom and stepdad looking after Isabella so we could have a night out on the town, but also helping look after her and entertaining her every day and getting her out of bed in the mornings when she woke up earlier than we would have liked to get up. It was lovely having a bit of a lie in! It was just such a relaxing, fun family holiday. 

It was really hot, between 31C - 37C most days so the hottest part of most days were spent indoors where it was cooler, but we enjoyed sitting under the trees in the garden in the late afternoon and going for strolls around the dam nearby after dinner in the evenings. Isabella handled the heat really well to our surprise, although she did manage to wake up with her first cold the morning we left for Germany. We had a few difficult nights but then she was back to sleeping through the nights, smiling through most of the days and just having occasional parts of the later afternoons where one could see she was just not feeling quite herself.



Waiting in 'The Park' to board our flight.

We were lucky to have a free seat so after
take-off Isabella could spread out a bit.

Cooling off in the pond.

With her Opa Jürgen.

This one has my name on it!

Perfect summer evenings for BBQs



A visit to the English Garden in Munich. So peaceful and beautifully green.






An evening stroll around the dam and past these fields.

What a lovely bed! It even has a little door!

Now this is a summer holiday! Swimming in refreshingly
cold water! Isabella only dipped her toes in.

And was exhausted after our visit to the dam,
getting a quick nap in on her daddy's shoulder
on the walk home.

Passed out after a fun afternoon.

Date night in Munich!

After some shopping we went for sushi and
cocktails. A stroll around the city and then
dinner at a Thai restaurant. Perfect!

Now why do you have so many teeth Ouma, and I only have two?

Isabella on her great-grandmother's lap. What a privilege to
have a great-granny.

Mommy-baby selfie while the daddy plays with his toys.

Andre flying his quadrocopter

There he goes!

Isabella enjoyed visiting beer gardens!

And inspected the benches up close, also
testing them as possible teethers.

This dress brings out the German in her!





A last lunch under the trees.


Waiting to board our plane back home. 
Isabella made an interesting friend on the plane- the guy in the row next to us told us he is the tallest man in Canada and has the second largest hands in the Guinness Book of Records. He was on his way back to Canada after filming a movie in Tunisia in which he plays Goliath. He was really sweet with Isabella, making her smile all the time. I so wish I had asked to have a photo of us with him.



Isabella received this puppet when we boarded the plane-
It's called Lu, the Lufthansa mascot.


Friday, June 6, 2014

Feeding Isabella: Books on weaning your baby

The very first meal

Isabella had her first taste of solids (or semi-solids) the day before she turned 5 months. If I had to do it over I think I would wait until she's 6 months. Eating has made no difference yet on her sleep.* She's only now after two months starting to eat proper bigger portions. While I feel there's probably nothing wrong with starting earlier even, the health visitor was absolutely right in the end telling me it's not going to make a difference with the small amounts of fruit and veg only she was eating until recently. And also once I started I felt I couldn't go back and skip a solid meal during the day in case she's now used to it and expecting it so I had to keep it up. (Such a worrier when it comes to her!) I sometimes struggled fitting her meals in between bottles and naps. I felt like it didn't leave us much time for anything else, but it's getting better now.

She loves feeding herself and of course
dropping spoons to the floor...

Anyway, I was going to explain the way we feed her, or the way I do actually. Andre doesn't like mess and he doesn't like touching and definitely not tasting her food!

I really liked the idea of baby-led weaning as explained in this book:


The good points behind this method is that the baby learns to feed herself, she eats whatever you're eating and you don't have to sit and feed her so can enjoy your own meal. Or that is the idea. It creates quite a mess and you do end up having to pick up food off her lap, chair and the floor to hand back to her if it's still safe to eat, but you can manage a few bites yourself in between! It's also very good for hand-eye/ mouth co-ordination and fine-motor skills as they learn to pick up food of different sizes and textures, learning how to handle slippery bananas and small peas and how to eventually get it out their fists and into their mouths. But they don't end up eating very much at all in the beginning.

Crunchy carrot relief for teething!

We both had couscous salad for lunch.
Experiencing new textures.

We decided to do a bit of both, combining purees with finger foods. So I usually try to give Isabella something to feed herself, like half a banana, tomato wedges which she really likes, carrot sticks, cheese, or other fruit or veg slices, bread fingers with butter or cream cheese or anything else I can find in the fridge which she can hold.

toast fingers with soft cheese

Scrambled egg and toast on a Saturday morning.

She has recently discovered that she can bite bits off and she doesn't like the feeling of a chunk of food in her mouth at all! Her tongue is learning what to do with it so it's good for her, but she's now a bit wary of feeding herself sometimes.

She helped herself to the crust while she was
sitting on the kitchen counter!

Burgers and chips! (oven baked of course)

Her absolute favourite is yoghurt and fruit puree. Or just fruit puree on it's own. It's like chocolate to her I think! You'd think she's had enough to eat, but she's always got space for 'pudding'!

Sometimes eating with a spoon just takes too
long so she takes matters in her own hands and
decides to drink her yoghurt!

A slice of mango after yoghurt and berry puree.

Our next step is to get her used to having her purees more chunky and not as smooth as she likes them at the moment.


Feeding herself Weetabix for breakfast.


*Update: (I started writing this more than a week ago!) After advise from our health visitor we have now reduced her bottles down to only 3 milk feeds a day and she is now eating more solids. She wolfs down her purees and has a late morning and late afternoon snack, although it's usually just finger foods and not much of that makes it to her tummy yet, compared to when I feed her. AND... she's slept through the night for the past three nights!! Yay! Even slept until 7 this morning (usually she wakes around 6). I love giving her a bottle and will miss it when she stops having them, but it does make life easier having less bottles a day to fit in with her meals and naps and also less to wash and carry around when we're out. 

Little miss Independent wants to do it all
herself already. Giving her one spoon to hold
is not enough, she wants both!



Other books I've found helpful:


Super Baby Food which is a really, really complete guide. It will tell you everything. How to cook an egg (I looked it up the other day to be sure I had it cooked through for Isabella!) to how to safely freeze baby food and loads of ideas on everything. It also covers hygiene in the kitchen, how to choose the best fruit and veg when shopping, how best to store food, has a section on nutrition and then of course the super baby porridge which I will try and give a go soon as I'm getting bored with the store bought baby cereals. I actually need to read this book again. You can't remember half of it there's so much information!



Feeding Sense which is part of the South African Baby Sense series. This book is much more simplified compared to the one above, but was also very helpful as you can feel quite overwhelmed by all the new information on feeding your baby and this one just tells you straight what, when and how much. I still refer back to this one from time to time too.

Tasting lemon for the first time at our Baby
Sensory class.



I also had a look at the Baby-Led Weaning Cookbook which has some nice simple recipes for the whole family but liked the River Cottage Baby and Toddler Cookbook even more. I just borrowed them from the library, but we seem to end up cooking more without recipe books most nights.

And we have water after every meal or snack.
Here she's got her puppy water cup. The lid is
the puppy's head.  -From Ikea


Eating is just so much fun!!

Thursday, June 5, 2014

A Portrait a Week: 23/52

For a change I'm organised and posting Isabella's portrait of the week early as we're going away on a little holiday.

She loves standing up. If she's ever a bit grumpy and you let her stand, she's instantly happier. And getting more and more braver, letting go with one hand. I love seeing how her balance is improving. We're still waiting for the crawling stage so she needs to hold off with the walking for a bit still!


Sunday, June 1, 2014

A Portrait a Week: 22/52



We had a lovely sunny weekend after more than a week of rain and grey skies. Saturday we spent with friends at a church fair. Isabella loved every minute of it there. She never once complained. She loved looking at all the people, enjoyed the loud music (and even had a quick nap when we got there with the loud music playing!), she went on the swings and generally just enjoyed standing on the grass with her bare feet laughing.

Sunday was spent in our back garden. Andre did a lot of gardening while I did the entertaining of the little one. Also went for a quick walk in the afternoon to the park where Isabella had another go on the swings and even down the slide, with Andre holding her all the way down of course.



We tried getting a family photo of the three of us but Isabella can't keep her hands off any piece of technology. Camera, phone, remote- she's got to have it! (Wonder where she gets that from...)



And finally, long awaited photos of the toothies! The first two are now well and truly out and visible, although still small. And very very sharp. She managed to draw blood, gnawing my finger this weekend!





*All the good photos courtesy of Andre. (The average ones are me with the iphone!)